8 Ways to Stop Trying to Please Your Boyfriend at All Times
5. Stop blaming yourself
Arguments and misunderstandings are normal in a relationship. Reasons for these problems can be varied. But blaming yourself every time you argue or fight with your boyfriend just because you want to make him happy is a move in the wrong direction. Such thoughts and actions can deteriorate your self-confidence greatly.
6. Learn to give and take
Every relationship must be built on mutual trust, love and care. If you are the only one who is doing and giving all the time, you should stop doing it. Eventually, you will begin to neglect your own wants and desires and a worthy man will not let you fall into such a rut.
7. Don’t pay his debts
There may be many times you want to help him but there are other instances that are better avoided. Money is one such area. If he has financial problems, you could help him find a way out of it but not lend him money and make that a habit. While there may not be problems, it is always better to draw a fine line in issues that are usually potential problem creators.
8. Stop feeling obligated
You are committed to each other but that is no reason to feel obligated towards him. Routine calls at appointed time, physical intimacy just to please him and doing his laundry are not things that should feature in your to-do list every day. Do only those things that you like to do and not because you feel obligated to please him that way.
