5 Ways to Handle Sexist Remarks
4. Create or quote a witty line
If someone is repeatedly calling you with sexist tags such as ‘Honey’ and ‘Baby’, just stop them in the middle and say something witty, like, ‘Honey was the name of my neighbor’s dead dog’, or quote something like ‘Research shows that 65% of the men who use words like Honey and Sweetheart at work are not getting enough action at home. Is the situation for you equally sad?’
5. Avoid situations where people can be sexist
Sometimes, women can unknowingly attract wrong situations, which can cause coworkers or others to make sexist remarks. For instance, never say things like ‘I think my cleavage worked to get that deal from the client’ or ‘I have an important meeting tomorrow. Need to package myself well.’ Even if you say such things lightly or as a joke, men around you are bound to think otherwise, and that will lead to ugly sexist comments. Be very professional at work, and don’t seek any privileges for yourself. After all, if you are seeking equality, then you shouldn’t get privileges too, right? Avoid all situations where things can turn nasty.
The mindset of people is changing quite slowly and gradually. There are still a lot of sexist traits and actions in men that need to be checked. But since the change can’t happen immediately, it’s best that women stay calm and rational about this. Acting like too much of a feminist can also put you in trouble sometimes.
