9 Ways To Find Out If Your Relationship is Going Nowhere
6. He spends every weekend or holiday with friends
Wanting some private time with friends is normal but wanting to do that every time he has time off is unnatural. It should send off some alarm bells. Your relationship will never be given the time it should get.
7. You don’t make time for the relationship
Life has a share of responsibilities it throws on you. But those should not serve as excuses to not make time for each other. Regardless of how hectic your routine is, when making time for each other does not figure in your to-do list, you should know something is definitely wrong.
8. You take each other for granted
Married couples tend to take each other for granted after a few years spent together. While some of it is inevitable, the charm of the relationship is only when you do and want to do things for each other. But when taking each other for granted becomes a routine, there is no more unconditional and selfless love left in the relationship.
9. He doesn’t take you to meet his family and friends
If you aren’t married as yet and your boyfriend is reluctant to take you to family reunions or meeting his friends, then there is some problem brewing in your relationship. If he is truly happy with you and both of you see a beautiful future together, both families must be involved in your bonding.
While it is not appropriate to consider every undesirable trait a red flag, it is also not right to ignore concrete red flags for long. When a relationship has no future together and cannot be changed regardless of efforts, a wise decision must be taken to see what can be done.
