7 Ways to Develop a Charming Personality
5. Keep the most common and interesting topics in mind
Talk to people according to their likes but keep in mind some common and interesting topics that everybody likes. If he is a sports lovers, you can talk to him about the new team or the game that was on last night. If someone is an art lover, talk about different arts. You don’t need to be an expert for this. A rapport can be built just by asking a few questions and playing off the conversations you have.
6. Phrase things correctly
Make sure that you don’t say anything offensive. Great charmers are great charmers for a reason. They know exactly what to say and when to say it. Pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues while talking. Phrase things correctly and talk in a pleasant, warm and genuine tone.
7. Compliment generously
Always try to find something to appreciate about a person and express it verbally. If someone or something is good, compliment them immediately. If you wait for a long time, it will be badly timed and may come across as insincere. Let your compliments be believable. They should be things that you genuinely believe are worth complimenting.