6 Tips to Initiate a Breakup After a Long Relationship
4. Cite the reasons
When you break up with him tell him the real reason behind it. Justify your action so he knows what the real issue is. Put more emphasis on your shortcomings and not his mistakes. This will probably feel like a light punch and not a heavy blow.
5. Listen to him
Be polite to him and after you have made your point, listen to his side of the story as well. If you feel he is trying too hard to change your mind, put your decision in front of him firmly and bid adieu.
6. Do not maintain contact
After having done the hard work of breaking up, do not stay in touch with him. There is no need to ask him how he is taking it. Unfriend him if you have to. This will make it smooth for both of you.
