5 Tips on What to do if You Fall in Love with Your Best Friend’s Boyfriend
4. Talk it out
Depending on the situation, talk it out either with your best friend, or to the guy. If he is making advances at you, then you can smartly stop him by saying that it’s wrong because he is already dating someone else. And if you’re lucky, then he will automatically confess his feelings and that will give you a sense of direction. But if your friend is a person who can listen to you without judging you, then better talk to her about it. Sometimes, who we think our best friends are, may not be thinking of us the same way. So be careful before you decide to talk out things. Some people just like to keep the guy and the best friend both in front of them, and talk it out openly in one go.
5. Wait for sometime
Don’t be in a hurry. Time will automatically change things for the better. Either they will break up, or he will come to you on his own, or you will stop liking him. Something or the other will happen to improve the situation. Just have faith and keep assessing your feelings from time to time.
If you and your best friend have grown up together and have the same kinds of likes and dislikes, then it’s only natural for both of you to fall for a similar kind of guy. But that does not mean that you fall for the ‘same guy’! Friends last forever, but sometimes, true love seems to compensate for every broken relationship. Chalk out your list of pros and cons carefully and then decide on a good plan of action.
