7 Tips on How to Come Out of the Friend Zone
5. Don’t be too goody all the time
As a friend, you might be good with him but not as someone else. Don’t be too available all the time. Like, if he calls you up to meet him, just say that you are busy. Make him realize your importance in his life. And, well if he also misses you in your absence, then you are definitely out of your friend’s zone, so this will actually work for you.
6. Don’t get desperate
In the need for attention, often one gets desperate in life. Don’t repeat this mistake. If you are looking to get out of your friends zone, then you need to be patient in this situation. This is not going to happen in a day’s time. It will take lots of efforts from your side to change the equation with your friend.
7. Don’t try to break up
Agreed, you are looking to break that friend’s barrier because of your feelings. But, don’t go to an extreme level for this. Do not ever try to break up the relationship, he might be in. That is a bad idea. You would lose his trust in this situation. If he is dating someone else, then you need to show him all your positive qualities. Always be there for him to support him. This would make him realize your importance in his life.