5 Signs Your Ex is Affecting Your Current Relationship
4. You fantasize about your ex
You may be ashamed to admit it, but maybe you are imagining your ex when you are in bed with your current boyfriend. Do you also expect your current boyfriend to make the same moves in bed as your previous one? Do you expect him to say the same kinds of things? Then you are anyway spending half your time in bed thinking about your ex, instead of enjoying any moments with your current boyfriend. Better work on this, soon. Or else it will mess up your life and your relationship with your current boyfriend, quite a lot.
5. You’re hoping to get him back someday
This is a situation that most lovers get into after a breakup. Somewhere, they never want to move on, because they hope that their boyfriend will return someday. This means that whatever relationships you get into after your breakup, are only to fill the void. You’ve kept only your ex really close to your heart all this while, and are not opening up in the true sense to anyone else. You are also maybe hoping for situations or circumstances where you will bump into your ex, or are day-dreaming about him. This isn’t the fairest thing for the guy you are currently seeing.
The sooner you get over your past relationship, the better it will be for you. Unless you move on, you will not be able to enjoy good moments in your life with new people. Look around; there are plenty of options to choose from. So what, if your previous relationship didn’t work out? You’ll soon find a soulmate, if you have an open heart and the willingness to let one enter your life.
