4 Reasons Why Openly Preferring One Child can Break Your Family
3. There will be more hatred instead of love
There will be more hatred in the family than love. The hatred will be between you and the kids and between the kids themselves when they notice that one kid is being preferred over the rest.
4. It causes irreparable damage to the kid’s psyche
Early denial of love and the feeling of neglect in a child can cause some serious psychological problems that can be irreversible. If you choose to favor one kid over another or over other kids that you have, you should be ready to live in a dysfunctional family or a family that’s broken.
When you become a parent, no matter how many time, it should be special for you and the kid. You are given a huge responsibility of taking care of and shaping the kid’s life. You cannot afford to mess up and you need to take care of how you bring them up. Even if you truly prefer one kid over the other, you should act in such a way that the kids do not sense it. It it is easier said than done as kids can always sense these things. The best thing to do would be to love all your kids equally.
