6 Reasons Why Love at First Sight is Fake
4. You’ve hardly spoken!
True love can only build and develop between two people when they get to know each other properly. And if you are only dependent on love at first sight, then you are wrong, because you have hardly spoken to that person. What if the person’s intellect is not the same as yours or your wavelengths don’t match? It’s important to know a person in and out before you give it the sacred tag of ‘love’. After all, how do you know that he is not a womanizer or won’t cheat on you later?
5. You haven’t gone through a testing phase
Each relationship needs to go through a testing phase for it to be well defined. In other words, for you to realize that you are truly in love, you both need to sail through rough times together, and still feel the same way about each other. When you only consider it to be love on the basis of the good times that you’ve spent together, then you haven’t actually built your relationship well. Come one problem, and it will all fall apart. So don’t base your conclusions on the first few good moments.
6. You may have misjudged
Let’s see this logically. So you’ve spotted a guy across a crowded room and you think that it’s love at first sight. But how exactly do you know that he is not dating someone else, or isn’t married, or isn’t gay for that matter? You may have misjudged the person based on the setting or the situation he was in that time. So wait till you have some clarity, and then ask your head to do some thinking, while giving your jumpy heart’s feelings a backseat.
So now think about all of these things and understand for yourself if love can really ever happen in the first instance only. As a mature woman, you’d realize that there is a lot more to love and relationships than the momentary crushes that we develop by looking at someone attractive.
