10 Reasons to Take Him Back After He has Cheated on You
6. You need to follow your heart
Women are often dependent on other girl friends for relationship advice. Sometimes, under their friends’ pressure, they get rid of a cheating boyfriend, whereas in their own hearts they have actually forgiven the person. You should not get influenced by your friends. After all, you were the one in that relationship and you might understand the guy better than your friends do. Give him a chance if your heart has forgiven him.
7. Don’t be embarrassed with the fact that he cheated on you
Some women might not think cheating to be a big deal, but they are under peer pressure. They think it is embarrassing that their boyfriends were not satisfied in the relationship. Sometimes, some of the most satisfied men also cheat. One needs to understand that it is just a mistake, and should have the courage to forgive and forget.
8. May be it is just a one time affair
What if your guy really loved you? What if he actually cares for you? What if in the spur of the moment he made a mistake and now he really wants to set things right? Shouldn’t he be given a chance? Shouldn’t he be understood? What if your chance of finding such an emotional relationship with a person just goes away, just because you throw him out of your life in a moment of anger? All these questions need to be addressed.
9. Cheating in some cultures is not such a big deal
A lot of people around the world who have liberal sexual lives actually accept the idea of cheating. The only difference is that they do not call it ‘cheating’. They believe in open relationships, where everyone has the sexual freedom to choose a partner, and get satisfied physically. It has got nothing to do with emotionally betraying someone or breaking mental and heartfelt bonds with people. Try giving this concept a thought.
10. Everyone’s boundaries are different
It is important to set boundaries in a relationship. And if there are no boundaries, then that also needs to be stated. These kinds of things should be discussed at the beginning of the relationship itself. What if the guy thinks that casual flirting with another woman is okay but you consider it to be cheating? These kinds of things need to be clarified before dumping the guy you are in a relationship with.
One may have a problem with the kind of reasons suggested here, but this is not to propagate the act of cheating in any way. This is just to let you know that if a man cheats on you, the reasons for that need to be understood properly. A hasty decision can end up hurting you and him both, and would make you lose a person who could have been great for you.
