Is Your Boyfriend Cheating On You?
More talk about the end
Fights and arguments are a part of every relationship. Both partners need to understand this fact and try to nurture solid levels of tolerance. After a fight, there is no reason for him to keep saying “that’s why I think we are heading nowhere”, “don’t blame me if this does not work out”, “do you really see the relationship going any forward?” or “things are just not working out”. Frequent talk about the relationship ending is definitely a point to watch out for.
Odd self-improvement spurs
We all know that self-improvement makes us better people. But is your boyfriend developing sudden interest in new hobbies or displaying the sudden need to be fit? Is he being overly cautious of the clothes he wears? Does it feel that his behavior is just not adding up to the type of person he normally is? Too many changes at once are strange and surely worth looking into.
Change in music taste
Okay, did you just read the heading and go, “No way!”. You’ll be surprised. Was he always a fan of rock music and suddenly he likes to listen to country music? Maybe it’s because his lover likes country music. Singled out, this change is too insignificant to worry about but if it adds up along with all other traits that we have talked about, be mindful. Maybe you want to randomly ask him “how come you listen to country music? I thought you hate it. That’s strange”. See how he reacts.
If you feel your boyfriend is cheating on you, start being nosy and try and dig out as much information as you can before confronting him. Go with your gut feeling and do not hold back on any questions or thought that you may have. After all, it is only for the good of the relationship. If nothing works, get out the relationship.
