Is It Love Or Lust?
It is ‘LOVE’ if
1. You want to spend quality time with him. The time you spend together is something you really cherish and look forward to. If you are not only interested in sleeping with him, but be with him at all times happy and sad, then you are in love.
2. You motivate him as a person and vice versa. If you constantly desire his success and keep him motivated to achieve his goals and he does the same for you, then you are in love. If his joy gives you happiness and you wince when he gets hurt, you love him and it is definitely not only lust.
3. You love to have conversations with him and really enjoy listening to what he has to say. If you enjoy talking, then undoubtedly you are in love. In case of lust, the tendency is to avoid talking. If you share a lot with him and he talks to you about his day and if you want to listen to each other’s feelings, then you are in love.
Therefore, by determining where exactly you stand in your relationship, you will realize whether it is love or lust. Take decisions sensibly, not only by being driven by your impulse.
