How to Make a Marriage Happy?
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
-Mignon McLaughlin
It is not that hard! Keeping a healthy marriage is actually a combination of a few simple steps which both partners need to keep in mind. And if one loves one’s partner, it is actually easy!
1. Keep the love alive
The most important facet of marriage is, of course, the love. Keep showing how much you love your partner no matter how long you have been married. You can never be married long enough to stop needing to tell or hear that you love and are being loved. Pay attention to small details to make your partner happy and keep the spark in your relationship alive and watch how both of you revel in each other’s company.
2. Trust each other
Under any circumstances, do not lie to him (unless you are planning a surprise birthday party)! One lie can do permanent damage to your marriage, and will take a long time to mend, if at all it has scope of mending. Tell your husband how much you really paid for that Gucci dress you bought out of a momentary impulse. There might be a tiff for a while, but the truth will keep your marriage robust. The element of trust will give peace and confidence to both you and your partner and will develop an understanding that will eventually strengthen the relationship.
3. Keep the flame ignited
Just because you are now married for life, it does not mean that sex should become a chore. Enjoy the intimacy and pay attention to minute details to keep the fire burning. Hit the gym, follow a strict diet and maintain your health – all that would spice up your most intimate moments. Make yourself wanted and show your partner how much you want him. If you have sex like newly weds for years after marriage, you will watch the magic your relationship will emanate.
These are a few simple things that need to be kept in mind if you have to learn how to make a marriage happy. If you follow these tips diligently, nothing will be able to come between you and your spouse.
