How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?
Send him flowers
Who said it is only the guys who should send flowers to the girls? Surprise him by reversing the trend. Give him a hint that you still want to see him and are interested in getting back to him. Wait and watch for his reaction. Sometimes, guys respond to such sweet nothings in a better way than what you would expect them to.
Don’t be seen partying after a breakup
Some people have the tendency of retaliating after a breakup by excessive socializing and partying. If you are seen by your boyfriend at a party with strange people over an array of drinks, immediately after the breakup, your chances of getting back with him are out of the window. Be a little low key and don’t show your anger on him by over socializing.
Send the message
In addition to socializing too much, the other way girls react after losing their boyfriend, is by suddenly feeling insecure and looking for love elsewhere. Don’t start hitting on his friends as soon as you’re ‘done’ with him. Instead, try speaking to his best friend about the problems between the two of you. Tell him to help you get back together with him. Your boyfriend may also appreciate this gesture when he comes to know about the efforts you made.
Don’t sound desperate
However ruffled you may be emotionally, don’t let it come out on the surface and display your weakness in front of him each time. If you keep on talking about your grief like a worry wart to all your friends all the time, then the word will definitely spread and if it reaches your boyfriend, he will be turned off. Be dignified and don’t give out details to friends. Details are often twisted by other people. Your boyfriend will appreciate your silence and will start trusting you again.
Tactful behavior will help you in making your boyfriend interested in you, once again. Sometimes, the fights and problems are not as huge as they seem to be and they just need some distance and time to get sorted out. Playing cool and shredding off your ego is the key.
