10 Steps To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?
6. Change yourself
You may already be knowing the reason why he dumped you. If he finds something wrong in your behavior, try to change that trait of yours. Make him feel the need to come back to you. For example, if you have been a compulsive flirt, see that you stop that habit of yours. If you were a person who didn’t take your career seriously, it is time to get that on track. When he notices that transformation in you, he’d surely be moved and may come back to you.
7. Make arrangements for him to notice you
After you bring about the changes in your life, make sure that he notices you. For that, find out the places where he would be hanging out. Then ‘accidentally’ pop in at those very places and act as if it was pure coincidence. However, you got to be really careful here. Don’t let him have the slightest clue that you are doing this on purpose. So, try not to overdo it.
8. Judge the signs and make a move
Once you see a green signal from his end, it is time to act. Suddenly catch him off guard by greeting him or talking to him as if nothing happened. However, continue only if he is responding back. Once you find him responding, use your charm and make your meeting a fun time for him. Think of the first time you had used your charm to attract him. Make sure he really enjoys with you.
9. Disappear
Once you have taken the aforesaid step, he will naturally expect more from you. He may come to the conclusion that you are still not over him and he will be happy about it. However, now is the time to prove him wrong. Disappear for a day or two. Don’t answer his calls or messages. Make him miss you. After you see hundreds of messages from him and attempts to talk to you, only then go to the next step.
10. Confront
This is the final step. It is also the deciding factor if the two of you can get back together or not. Hence, you have to do this very skillfully. Do this only if he has made sufficient attempts to get in touch with you in the past few days. Confront him. Choose an appropriate place to speak to him. Avoid beating around the bush and come straight to the point. Tell him that you cannot stay in touch with him. If he asks you why, then tell him because you still love him very much. At this point, if he really loves you, then he’d surely melt. If this doesn’t work on him, nothing else may work. Give up and get on with your life. It is his loss! Something better is waiting for you ahead.
