8 Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
5. Hypersensitivity
If you find your guy to be extremely sensitive about everything, then you are bound hurt him with almost everything that you say or do. If you ever disagree with him, he may start seeing it as a personal attack. Even day to day problem would seem to him as injustices.
6. Extreme jealousy
He may think that being jealous is a sign of love but all it means is that he does not trust you, is insecure about the relationship, and is also possessive about you. When his jealousy and possessiveness take an extreme form, he is likely to turn abusive.
7. Use of force in an argument
When you are arguing with the guy, if you often find him pushing or shoving, then this is not a good sign. He may forcibly try to stop you from leaving the room or may just start throwing things around or breaking stuff around the house. This is not a healthy way of dealing with an argument and you must not take such behavior lightly.
8. Your gut feeling
There are chances that there may not be any of the above mentioned signs while you are in an abusive relationship. The best thing to do then is to completely rely on your instincts. If your gut tells you that something about the guy is not right or that he may be leaning towards being an abuser, do not take this feeling lightly. Just observe keenly and you will be able to see what kind of a person he truly is.
