4 Signs You Are Dating a Narcissist
You may think that your guy is just involved with himself because he wants to be the best he can be, but chances are that he might be a narcissist. And that could be dangerous because it is hard for someone who loves himself to love you completely and put you before everything else. So be on the safe side and look out for these signs that indicate that you are with a narcissist.
1. When he is sad, the world ends
And that happens often. Your guy could really be just plain moody, but chances are quite high that he is a narcissist. In his view, he is the center of his own world and hence, his state of mind controls him. He loves himself so his sadness crushes him and his happiness lifts the entire room around him. If your guy is too moody, this is a big sign that he is a narcissist.
2. His important trumps your important
Whatever he is doing is super important to him, be it a tiny little thing. If he could, he would just go on and on about how is it that he is so important, and his work is so important, and his time is so important and what he contributes makes such a big difference. Moreover, every now and then, he would be undermining the kind of things that you do. His stuff is always at the top of the list, yours, not so much.
3. Not big on sharing
Chances are that he is just not comfortable sharing, but not being able to share also indicates narcissism. Think about it, why is it that he cannot share? It is because he is already sharing with someone whom he loves and adores – his own self. And because he loves himself so much, he cannot share with anyone else.
4. He wants the spotlight
Narcissists are more often than not, big time attention seekers. They need everyone to look at them when they talk about their own selves, because in their minds, they are awesome people who come across as super amazing to everyone around them.
You can ignore a single sign on its own, but combine all of them and there you have it, a complete narcissist through and through. You can run and start afresh, or carry on and fight. Your choice.
