10 Secrets of Happy Couples
What is the secret of happy couples who are always smiling and basking in each other’s arms? How do they manage to live with each other, fight, make up and still live without any grudges? Read on to find out more about the 10 secrets of blissfully happy couples.
1. Learning to let go
One of the biggest secrets of couples who are always happy is that they are ready to compromise in a healthy way. They understand that marriage brings with it an inherent responsibility to let go sometimes, even when you are right. Couples are expected to not hold grudges or complaints in their heart for too long.
2. No ego hassles
Having a bloated ego can be the deal breaker in a marriage. Being snooty and high nosed should have no place in a marriage otherwise complications are bound to occur. The secret of being a super happy couple is to say sorry when you are wrong and put your ego aside to sort out complications.
3. No violence or bad mouthing while fighting
The best of marriages can fall apart if couples start turning nasty with fights by bad mouthing and hurling objects at each other. Couples who want to sustain a happy marriage must follow the golden rule of not becoming abusive physically or verbally, no matter how intense the fight is.
4. Avoid comparison with other similar aged couples
Have you ever felt a wave of envy when you are out with your other couple friends who are in the same age bracket? Comparisons of salaries, looks, financial and social status, kids and families between two couples can be obvious. But if these things keep ticking at the back of your mind all the time, then they are bound to create an inferiority or superiority complex. Happy couples are always satisfied with what they have and strictly stay away from such petty comparisons.
5. Sharing chores and responsibilities
One of the secrets to a happy marriage that tends to vaporize with time is sharing chores and responsibilities. Whether it is doing the dishes, putting the baby to sleep, moving the lawn, paying the bills or selling the stocks, happy couples divide chores and decisions as equitably as possible.
