3 Great Things To Do When He Dumps You
Getting dumped is very tough to handle emotionally. You tend to get depressed, begin to blame yourself for disappointing him and lose self confidence. So, if you have done enough sulking already, wake up and get your life back. You have as much right to be happy as does your ex. Here’s some advice on a few things that you can do when he dumps you.
1. Do not show you’re hurt
Firstly, do not show that you are hurt. Of course, you cannot help being sad but cut out weeping and all the other accompanying melodrama. Be bold. Shake hands with your ex. Give him a last parting hug if you feel up to it and part on a good note. Give him a huge smile before saying goodbye. If this does not put the guy in dilemma about dumping you, shift the guilt of losing such a cheerful partner on your ex. He seriously is low on the emotional quotient. You are better off without him.
2. Ask him for your things
The best thing you can say is “Can I have my things back?”. Now that the relationship no longer exists, it really does not make sense for him to have your things. If you have been living together, there will be a lot of things that you will have to take back. Remember, he does not have a right on the lovely things that you gifted him either. Taking them back and discarding them will help you come to terms with the breakup.
3. Invite him to a breakup party
If the both of you have had a great past, why not think of a breakup party? The guy will surely want to part on good terms. Call friends and celebrate your new freedom with a rocking bash. Who knows, the party might even kindle back the fire in him and he might want to get back with you. Now, that is something you need to think about. Do you want him back? Or have you begun enjoying your newfound freedom already?
Never do things out of spite when your guy dumps you. Do not take on another boyfriend on a rebound just to make your ex feel jealous. Now that you are out of a relationship, take some time to explore the world and find someone who is worthy of you.
