9 Ways to Make Sure You Are in Love with The Right Guy
Love is blind, but still you need to keep your eyes open to find the right guy for you. Every toad you kiss will not turn into your Mr. Right. So how can you make sure that you are in love with the right guy? Here’s a list to help you
1. Don’t be the ‘desperate for love’ kind of lady
If you pose yourself as someone who is just desperate to fall in love, then your probability of hooking up with the wrong guy is pretty high. Men can often sense when the woman is desperate for love. In such a scenario, they can manipulate your feelings to their advantage. If you get an inkling that something like that is happening with you, then you definitely need to take charge of things.
2. Call him when you are sick
When you are down with flu, looking all disheveled and feeling pretty down; that’s the time you should call him. How he behaves will tell you all you need to know about his character and what you mean to him. If he comes to you, takes care of you, serves a hot chicken soup to you and sits by your bedside trying to make you laugh and feel better – then get on to your knees and thank god for being in love with the right man who will stand by you in sickness and health.
3. See what a little ‘distance’ does to your relationship
Here it means the physical distance. You can go on a vacation or visit someone out of the state, just check out what the physical distance does to your relationship. You don’t need a guy who believes in ‘out of sight, out of mind’ ideology when it comes to love. Great love always ignites greater passion when there’s physical absence. If that’s the case with you and your guy, then definitely you are in love with the right man.
4. Check if he thinks love is equal to sex
Sex is a very important part of a couple’s love life, but it is not everything. So if your guy feels that love is equal to sex, then you probably need to do some thinking. Love is much more than mere sex and the right guy will make you feel the same. Where there is true love, sex is much more passionate and rises above mere physical intimacy. It becomes union of souls, rather than mere union of bodies.
5. Observe how he treats women in his life
How a guy treats his mother or sister can tell you a lot about him as a person. If he’s abusive towards them, but loving towards you; then it’s merely because you are the ‘new’ one in his life. Sooner or later, his abusive streak will ruin your life too. So make sure you are with a sensitive and wise man, rather than an abusive one.
