8 Ways to Overcome Insecurity in a Relationship
5. Do not be a mind reader
Stop trying to figure out what your partner is thinking. This will only lead to anxiety and negativity. Respect your guy’s privacy and let him have the space to think his own thoughts.
6. Quiet the voice in your head
No one can help you overcome insecurities unless you want to. Every time you have that criticizing voice in your head, talk yourself out of it. Train your mind to think positively.
7. Focus on the good
Instead of constantly thinking of reasons why this relationship is doomed to fail, think about all the good things that the relationship has to offer you both. If you are positive and hopeful, it will have a direct effect on your partner.
8. Talk it out
It is very important to share your anxieties with your partner. However, if you feel that your constant nagging and talking about your insecurities is hurting or suffocating your guy, try sharing your fears with your close friends. They may be able to give you a fresh perspective.
