8 Ways to Move on After You have been Cheated by Your Boyfriend
5. Forgive yourself
A lot of times, women have a tendency to keep blaming themselves for whatever wrong happened in their relationship. Well, apart from being ridiculously stupid, that’s totally unfair! You need to stop thinking that whatever happened was because of you. If he had to stay, he would have found a million faults in you and stayed anyway. And if he left you, then that just goes on to show that your relationship was very fragile in the first place that he probably cheated on you on the pretext of the smallest of things. It’s all about how he wanted to take forward or discard the relationship, so you are not even in the picture!
6. Forgive him
Be the one with the bigger heart and the better brain, and forgive him. Act like a mature person and do not hold any grudges. Karma often works, and for all you know, he will end up facing similar or worse shit in his life very soon. Plus, those who are less sensible, or don’t have the capability to hold on to a good girl like you are dumb anyway. Forgive them for their dumbness at least!
7. Stop being cynical
A very natural response for women who have been cheated on is to become cynical in life. They end up thinking that all men are cheaters and that they will never find a good person to be with. Don’t think like that! The minute you turn this negative, you shut down all possibilities of a better life for yourself. Not all people on this planet are the same, and not all men on this planet can be like your ex. The more negative you think, the more you will be reinforcing the actions of your ex in your head, and will keep on feeling miserable about it. Instead, look at the good actions of other nice guys around you, and use that to forget the actions of your ex.
8. Ask for help
Last, but definitely not the least, don’t shy away from taking any kind of professional help to move on. If you feel that your emotions are going way out of your control, and you need the help of a therapist to give the right kind of channel or outlet to your feelings, then go ahead and do that. In fact, the sooner you do it, the better it will be for you.
Yes, it’s not easy to move on. Yes, you can’t move on in a day. But shortening and simplifying the process of moving on is totally in your hands. Only when you take control of your life can you actually start enjoying it. So forget about whatever happened, and make conscious efforts to live your life happily. Sooner or later, things will fall in place.
