8 Ways to Deal With an Insecure Boyfriend
5. Give your boyfriend compliments
Deal with your boyfriend’s insecurities by giving him compliments to boost his confidence. Compliment him on his looks, his clothes, his skills, his personality and all the other things that can make him feel good. Your compliments will increase his confidence levels and remove his insecurities over a period of time.
6. Constantly give reassurance for his insecurities
Regardless of how many times you see your boyfriend fretting over his insecurities, always keep giving him reassurance in some form. Use positive verbal reaffirmations while talking to him so that his confidence in you and the relationship keeps becoming stronger.
7. Be patient
Patience is one of the most important virtues you may need while dealing with an insecure boyfriend. Always remember that his insecurities may be a result of his lifelong habits and experiences. His way of thinking and fear regarding certain issues may not go away overnight. Have patience and be prepared to give him chances until he mends his ways.
8. Remind him of your relationship’s long term future
It is easy to get frustrated and fed up of an insecure boyfriend. To avoid losing control of your relationship, remind yourself of the long term future. Think of how happy you can be if and when your boyfriend manages to overcome his insecurities. This will motivate you and inspire you to try harder to make your relationship work.
