8 Ways to Become the Life of the Party
5. Address people by names and always smile
Most people can judge a fake smile. Genuine smiles though, will make you endearing. The people you know should feel great when you greet them with a generous smile and acknowledge their presence without hesitating. Confident body postures and some physical contact shouldn’t be ruled out when you are making friends in a party where you don’t really know everyone.
6. Try new things
Whether it is heading to the dance floor or jumping into the pool with your clothes on, it is always a good idea to try new things. There is a very thin line between looking for attention and enjoying yourself. As long as you don’t look too eager, most people won’t be able to make out the difference.
7. Compliment people
Everyone loves a genuine compliment. So, when you find something interesting, say it. Whether it is the wavy hair of a lady friend, her shoes or a guy’s shirt, make it a point to tell people you are impressed by them. Most people would warm up to it and those who don’t are too cynical really to pay attention to after that. Parties are for socializing and hence you will never look out of place being an out and out extrovert at a party. To be the life of the party, you need an aura, and the aura is created only with a friend circle.
8. Learn to deal with brats
The coolest guy in the party is not the one who makes fun of others, but the one who can deal with nonsensical funny guys. Have a comeback if someone tries to shove you around. It isn’t easy. Sometimes, you are lost for an answer. But with time, by merely observing those who do it or reading about it, you can develop your own comebacks.
