8 Tips on How to Give Your Boyfriend Space
Anyone in a relationship will require space at some point of time, irrespective of how much in love they are. If you are too attached to your boyfriend and he has started to show signs of discomfort or worse still has even expressed it to you, it is time to mend your ways and give him space. Here are some tried-and-tested tips to help you do that.
1. Realize the mistake
First and foremost, understand that your boyfriend has other things and people of interest in his life beyond you. He should be given the space and time to focus on them rather than putting you on priority all the time. The sooner you realize this fact, the better will your relationship be.
2. Give yourself some space
Before meeting your boyfriend, there must have been something that you did with your life. Are you giving that a skip now that you have found someone? If you are, then the best way to give your boyfriend space is by focusing on your hobby or interest that you had before you met the guy.
3. Talk to him with maturity
When you talk to him, stop getting into the whining or self-pity mode. Talk in a real mature manner and do not engage in a really long conversation. Your guy is neither going to have the patience to listen nor would respond properly. So, avoid the blaming game.
4. Give him as much time as he wants
Giving him the time as per your preference is not what is appropriate. Your boyfriend will have his priorities set right and knows what he wants to do and when. So do not force feed him with what he must do.
