8 Signs You are Not Ready for Marriage
5. You are excited about the wedding, not the marriage
A wedding just takes place for one day. It is the celebration or inauguration of something holy and beautiful called matrimony. While a wedding lasts just for a while, marriage lasts for a long time. Hence, it is necessary that you give much thought to your marriage than your wedding. Often women are obsessed about the idea of getting married for the wedding part of it. It is only after all the celebration is over that they realize what marriage is all about.
6. You don’t feel love anymore
If you are not sure that you love the person you are planning to marry today, then how can you even think that you will be able to love him for the rest of your life? Not being married to a person you love will not only make you unhappy in the long run, but you will also never be able to keep him happy. Instead marry someone you really love.
7. You and your partner are not financially secure
Marriage is not just two people coming together to spend their entire life with each other. It is a huge responsibility. If you are financially stable, your wedding will be a day of celebration. But if you’re not, it will be a huge financial drain. Also expenses increase once you are married. Hence it is safer to wait to get financially stable before you tie the knot.
8. You have just met him sometime back
This is one place where numbers matter. You cannot judge a person well enough when you just meet him. Understanding a person takes time. And getting married to a person you hardly met is like blindly walking on a bridge without edges. If you think he is Mr.Right, then what is the hurry? Wait for sometime, get to know him more, enjoy your dating phase with him and once you are done with all of this, you can surely get married.
The day you are getting married should be the best day of your life. And this can happen only if you are physically, mentally and emotionally ready for it. So don’t settle for anything less that the best!
