8 Signs You are a People Pleaser
5. You wouldn’t hurt or upset others even at the cost of your own happiness
Not wanting to hurt someone is a good thing but going to the extent of hurting yourself to protect other people’s interest is stepping over the line. You can be a people pleaser if you keep trampling over your own happiness so that you don’t upset others.
6. No one knows who the real you is
If you are always busy keeping other people happy, you may forget over time who you really are as a person. Think about what you want in life. If you blank out, it could be a sign that you have erased your own personality because of being a people pleaser.
7. You feel unsatisfied and incomplete at the end of the day
When people pleasers keep other people happy, they may feel that they are getting more acceptance. This may make them happy in turn. But this feeling is likely to be temporary. In reality, people pleasers crumple their own wishes and feelings so badly that they actually feel incomplete, unhappy and unsatisfied when they are by themselves at the end of the day.
8. You have low self esteem
Low self esteem is a commonly seen trait in the personalities of people pleasers. They constantly feel the need to fit in a group and they think that they are not good enough. If you feel that you want to be like your friends and you can do anything to be a part of a group, you could be a people pleaser with low self esteem levels.
