8 Signs That You Are Ready For Marriage
5. You accept his peculiarities
This is perhaps the most important one. You know everyone comes with their own quirkiness and anomalies. But the main thing here is if you know and accept all his unusualness, then you are prepared to marry him. You don’t cringe at the thought that he likes to listen to sad and sloppy songs in the middle of a busy day, instead you just smile at this funny behavior.
6. You are financially secure
Before you marry anybody you need to be financially independent. You just cannot take a step towards marriage, if you are not financially stable. Yes, you are in love and want to spend the rest of your life with him. But you also need to remind yourself that only love won’t buy you things or pay your credit card bills.
7. You make your long term plans with him
If you are making plans, that too long term ones with him, then you’re definitely set for getting married to him. This is one sign that you are thinking and planning your future with him by your side. This means you want him to be there with you and for you at all times. For instance, you both are saving finances now to be able to buy a decent home for yourselves.
8. You are ready to make small changes in your lifestyle
You have a daily set of activities and perhaps a schedule that you follow. Get up at 7. Reach work by 10. Be home at 6 and those sort of things. But if you are slowly and steadily bringing a change into your daily lifestyle such as not planning to go for a girls night out or taking a day off from work if he needs you for some chore, then you are ready for marrying him.
Just remember that marriage is no child’s play and if you are not ready, then don’t plan it now. You can wait for sometime and then think things through.
