8 Signs He does not Deserve You
5. He is too full of himself
Conceit is an emotion that allows no room for anyone else in a person’s heart. If the guy you are with cannot get enough of talking about himself, or his achievement or his plans or his career, he may really not be that much into you. Such a guy can’t be expected to empathize with your problems or see your life aspirations as anything important next to his own. He is unlikely to be genuinely interested in your likes and dislikes and if you are with a guy like that, you may as well be resigned to a life of obscurity.
6. He is the needy kind
Yes it is true. Men can be very needy as well. And when they get to it, they can be much worse than women. Modern times make various demands on a woman’s time. A woman has varied professional and social commitments which she must attend to, to keep her social standing in place. The man she is with needs to be supportive and understanding when it comes to the amount of time his lady spends with him. If he expects you to respond to his every text, call him during office hours, spend all your weekends with him, he might be asking you a little more than you can give. While you may revel in the seemingly infinite attention he can give to you, you may realize at the end of the day that you are exhausted with the amount of energy you need to put into being with him. Such a guy is also more likely to be jealous, possessive and over-sensitive. Before you go any further with such a person, make an honest assessment of what it will take from you and then decide.
7. He is the miserly man
He hates spending. It is his hard earned money after all. Money doesn’t grow on trees, but it is neither something that we take with ourselves when we die. If your man sees money as something to precious to be spent, even on you, then maybe his top priority is never going to be you anyway. While it is good to save and build an egg nest for the future, it is equally important to relish the precious moments of your courtship with special gestures, which of course require money. If a lifetime of killing desires is not what you want, then you may want to skip this man.
8. He is only interested in the sex
We all know this type. The ones who take what they want and leave. These are probably the worst category as also the most common. Despite this, women tend to fall for them, all the time hoping for something more. That something never materializes. Men who aren’t there when a woman is down and out and needs emotional support are simply not worth spending the time and energy on! It is an affront to your self-respect and dignity and unless you are also into the guy only for sex, you better leave while you still can.
