7 Ways to Get Your Introvert Boyfriend to Open Up
Are you having trouble getting your boyfriend to socialize with your friend circle? Is your boyfriend so quiet in front of other people that he starts getting dominated by them? Here are a few ideas to help your introvert boyfriend to open up.
1. Introduce your boyfriend to a sport that he may enjoy
Introverts are known to be fond of sports such as Chess, Computer gaming, Ping Pong, Roller Blading and Squash. They tend to like sports in which they don’t have to interact in large teams. Look for a handful of people who play such sports and introduce your introvert boyfriend to them. Once he starts enjoying the sport, he might look to other avenues for having fun.
2. Invite your boyfriend to join fun groups online
Introverts like gelling with people who share similar interests. If you think that directly introducing your introvert boyfriend to new people might intimidate him, send him invites on his Facebook account to join exciting groups. Make sure he interacts with people online. A little later, arrange for that group to meet in person so that your boyfriend feels comfortable in meeting people he already knows beforehand.
3. Ask your friends to initiate conversation related to your boyfriend’s interests
You may want to go a step ahead and take your friends into confidence before your boyfriend meets them. Tell your friends that you need help in getting your introvert boyfriend to open up and that they should initiate conversations related to your boyfriend’s interests. Once your boyfriend feels comfortable, he will come out from his shell and initiate conversation the next time around.
4. Get your boyfriend’s passions and interests to come out in the open
It is unlikely that your introvert boyfriend will ever flaunt his own passions and expertise in front of his or your friends. That’s the reason why the onus of opening up your introvert boyfriend automatically falls on you. Initiate a conversation about how good your boyfriend is at something. Or arrange an evening in which all your friends can get together and take a sneak peak at what your boyfriend loves doing.
