7 Ways to Avoid Becoming the Other Woman
5. Give yourself time and meet new people
If you are amused and surprised at falling in love with a married or committed man, you could be going through psychological ups and downs. You may need to give yourself some time, a new ambience and some new friends to refresh and recharge. Meeting new people will help you clear your mind, prioritize and get involved in new things.
6. Don’t give your man any more second chances
You may have already discussed issues like his divorce and your future together. It is also likely that he would have asked you for more time to answer similar questions. Investing time in a relationship as the other woman will make it more difficult for you to come out of it later. Stop giving him multiple chances to make tough decisions. It’s either now or never.
7. Put yourself in the position of your date’s long time girlfriend or wife
Have you ever imagined what a terrible spot your date’s long time girlfriend or wife would be in, while the two of you are cozying up with each other? Would you like to be labeled as the devil who plundered someone’s life? Think about how you would have felt if you were in her spot. You are likely to feel guilty and discomforted by thinking about such things and this will help you to get out of your relationship quickly.
