7 Tips to Handle Rejection From a Guy You Like
Getting rejected by a guy you like can be quite a nightmare. Your heart hurts like hell and you feel there’s no way you can overcome this. But it’s time to pull yourself together because you can and you will. With the help of these tips, you can handle rejection and move on with your life:
1. Hold on to your self-respect
Your heart may be forcing you to pick the phone and call him again and again, just to hear his voice. But please do not do that. Pull yourself together and hold on to your self-respect.
2. Take a break
If possible, take a break and go away for a while. Go on a vacation or visit some relatives who live far away. Do anything that will get you physically and mentally away from him for a while. This will give you the time you need to heal and move on.
3. Throw away things that remind you of him
Ditch them, throw them, burn them – do whatever you have to do, but simply get rid of all the things that remind you of him. It’s of no use keeping those things which remind you of the rejection all over again.
4. Stay away from facebook / twitter and other social networking sites
It’s not easy being friends with him once he has rejected you. So it is better that you stay away from facebook, twitter and other social networking sites for a while. This will give you the time to decide whether you want to remove him from your friends list or you can handle his name there. Remember that facebook makes it difficult for you to move on because you keep getting updates on his life through messages and photos. And if that includes his latest love interest or girlfriend, then things become more complicated and hurtful for you. So think carefully before making a decision.
