7 Signs You Need to Go for Couples Therapy
5. Things have gone downhill
Everything seems to have gone downhill in your love life, be it the sex, the communication, the affection, the sweet nothings, the time you both spent, etc. As the days go by, you feel like he is more and more of a stranger rather than your boyfriend or husband.
6. You don’t feel like you are a couple anymore
Communication plays a huge role in any relationship and when there is a breakdown in this very backbone of a relation, then everything seems doomed. You no longer talk much to each other, indulge in sex, talk on the phone, surprise each other with gifts, remember important days or go out on dates as often as you used to. If this is making you question your life with your man, then couples therapy may give you a clearer vision.
7. You can’t get over something that happened in the past
Many a time couples carry on smoothly even after something has shaken them to the core. Past incidents such as infidelity, major fights, verbal assaults, betrayal, etc., can creep up from time to time during arguments. If these incidents seem to be occupying your thoughts lately and you just can’t get yourself to move on properly while being in love with him, then a counselor would help you in sorting out things a great deal.