7 Secrets to Build Lifelong Friendships
5. Engage in acts of kindness
Friendship is much more than buying pricey gifts for each other. It is actually about preparing fresh home-made soup for an ill friend. It is about bringing him home for a night stay when there is a power cut in his house. Over-the-top parties and costly presents can make your friend feel shy, burdened and uncomfortable. Not everyone likes to be a part of lavish affairs. So, keep things simple and go out to a casual dinner with your friend.
6. Do not assume things about your friend
Assumptions often bring suspicion and jealousy along. So, expect things from your friend but don’t assume the reasons behind his failure to fulfill your expectations. Don’t be too quick to part ways from your friend. Accept that you and your friend are humans, and humans can make mistakes. They can even forget each other’s birthday! Whenever you feel bad about one of your friend’s actions, talk to him about the same instead of assuming anything.
7. Avoid being cynical
When you know a person, you are aware of his worst and good traits. Hence, it is easy to become cynical toward the negative aspects of that person. Be compassionate instead of being cynical in such a case. Compassion will keep you vulnerable instead of tough, protective and guarded. Don’t see the world through a negative lens. Compassion makes you feel and do good. Being honest and straightforward without being cynical is the best thing you can do in a friendship.
