7 Negative Things About Online Dating
5. It has no place for insecurity and fidelity
Insecurity is a natural emotion which every individual feels. When it comes to a relationship, insecurity is said to be beneficial as it brings two individuals closer to each other. And before we consider the negatives of insecurity, we must note that in case of online dating, insecurity is not only absent, it is not possible to evoke. This is because you never know the person at the other end – all you are aware of is a digital image he has created for the world to see – you do not have any intimate passage to rely upon. The same goes for the question of trustworthiness. As long as you do not really know someone, you cannot blame him for infidelity, nor are you bound in any way to be loyal to him.
6. It has no place for trust
While dating online, you really cannot trust anyone because everyone will behave and act on his whims and will fancy you as one of the several other ‘profiles’ at their disposal. So it is not really you who is interacting with them – it is a counterfeit image of yours that they are talking to and judging.
7. True love is not possible
As far as online dating is concerned, true love is impossible. It is a different matter if you fall in love with someone you meet online after meeting him in person. But till the time you only see the digital persona of someone and try to decide whether he could be a prospective partner or not, you are only fooling yourself.
