6 Ways to Get Him to Emotionally Open up to You
4. Do something together and pick an activity that he likes
Your guy may be totally uninterested in opening up to you while sitting on the balcony and sharing a romantic drink with you. However, he may be in the mood to talk if you sit with him and watch the Friday night game. While this was just an example, sometimes the trick in making your guy open up to you is to do stuff together that he really enjoys. This way, he will be at ease and not think too much before speaking his mind out.
5. Don’t force him into saying something
You could be making your man conscious and nervous if you keep raising this issue all the time. Stop nagging him and pestering him to talk to you more often. Rather, use subtle ways and opportunities to get him to open up to you emotionally. Forcing or nagging will make him averse to this whole activity and he may eventually have a dislike of having emotional conversations with you.
6. Offer helpful advice to him
What do you generally do when your guy comes to you and speaks about something that is bothering him? Do you just listen and say that everything is going to be fine? Instead, you should try to offer helpful advice whether that issue is in your domain or expertise. If your advice solves his issues, he may want to come to you often because he will see you as a problem solver. Finding solutions to his emotional issues will make you his agony aunt and make him open up to you completely and frequently.
