6 Ways to Find Out if Your Love for a Friend of the Opposite Sex is Non-Platonic
4. Your thoughts about sharing a future with him
Do you often dream about growing old with him? Is he constantly present in all your ambitions and goals about your future? It is acceptable if you dream about having a reunion with your friend ten years down the line but if you dream about having your friend by your side all your life, it is a sign of attraction which is more than just friendship. This is a sign that you want your friend to be an intimate part of your future.
5. Your levels of intimacy with him
Friends give each other hugs and feel fairly comfortable in each other’s presence. Friends also feel like getting a warm hug from their friends in times of depression or sadness. But if you feel that you simply can’t pass a day without some sort of intimacy with your friend of the opposite sex, your feelings may have crossed the line of being just platonic.
6. You dress according to his likes and dislikes
Do you think about the style of jeans that he likes before buying a pair from the store? Do you think about the kind of skirt he will like to see on you before dressing up for a party? A clear sign that your feelings in a relationship with your friend of the opposite sex are taking an intimate turn is when you wear clothes keeping in mind his likes and dislikes. Introspect and ask yourself if you are doing this on a regular basis. If you are, you may have completely fallen for your friend.
