6 Ways to Avoid Fighting After Marriage
4. Know each other’s likes and dislikes very well
The root of fights between most married couples usually boils down to knowing each other’s likes and dislikes. The husband may pick a fight because he thinks that the wife trampled on his choices and vice versa. To avoid such a fracas, know each other inside out so that you don’t end up doing something your partner doesn’t like or approve of.
5. Let go of things that you are generally very rigid about
Married couples end up fighting over petty things because they can’t let go of their ego and rigidity. They start questioning why they should do anything differently just because they got married. And then it becomes more about the battle of egos rather than about any difference in opinion. To avoid fighting after marriage, learn to let go of things and be as open minded as you can.
6. Make it a rule to avoid sexual intimacy on the days you fight
By forming a rule of avoiding sexual intimacy on the days you fight, you will start observing that you could be subjected to total lack of sexual intimacy for days together if you keep on fighting. This can act as bait in helping the both of you to avoid fights. Whenever you are about to fight, think about ending up without intimacy at night and you will slowly learn to avoid arguing and fighting.