6 Tips to Identify a Frenemy
4. You feel like she may be using you
At times you get this feeling that your friend is using you for her ulterior motives. Probably to get her work done, she behaves unusually nice with you. With a real friend, you should never get such thoughts, but if you can relate such behavior with certain friend of yours, then she could be the backstabber in disguise.
5. She seems to use her other friends
She strikes you as fake at times. In fact her friends act like her cronies or slaves who do as per her biding and she seems to be using them in some way or the other. Think about which way she may be using you to her benefit and if you do find one, then dump her as soon as possible.
6. Your confidence has been abused
Somehow the secrets you shared with her exclusively, and the gossip sessions you both had, come out in the open. Others know about what you talk of them behind their backs even though you have only divulged those things to your friend. Obviously she has sweet talked her way out of this situation by telling them to not reveal her name or using some hidden tactic by which you look like the criminal and she as innocent.
