6 Tips to Be a Lover Not a Fighter
4. Love yourself
If you always keep putting yourself second, then you will eventually feel that you have been unfair to yourself. You cannot give what you don’t have. If you do not love yourself, then you cannot love anyone or anything. The kind of relationship that you have with yourself reflects how you are with the world. Learn to forgive yourself, give your body the attention it needs, and make time to do things that make you genuinely happy.
5. Learn to see the good in all
We all have our flaws and it is often easier to hate someone or fight with someone by pointing out their flaws. But you must realize that you have the choice to see the good in people as well. If at all times, you focus on their good and the goodness around you, then you will be at peace. It will becomes effortless for you to love all that is around you. However, developing this quality can easily take a lifetime and you must remember that there are no shortcuts here.
6. Take responsibility for your actions
If you always keep putting the blame on others every time you fail, then you will forever be full of hatred. To be a lover, you have to know what flaws you have. You must learn to hold your head up and own up to the wrongs that you have done. Not only will this make you humbler, it will also make it impossible for you to judge others based on their flaws.
