6 Tips to Avoid Hurting Your Children During Divorce
4. Avoid discussions in front of children
Any argument, fight, legal issues and discussions must be done in private; it is not the time for your kids to process all these complicated and disturbing things through their mind. They aren’t mature enough to go through such circumstances, so it’s your duty to see to it that your kid doesn’t witness it.
5. Don’t let your children choose between the two of you
You shouldn’t be selfish and try to mind wash your kid against your ex husband to create distance between them. This way you are hurting the feelings of the child and it could have a negative impact on his/her mental health.
6. Give them love and care
Without any doubt and question a divorce is not what a child wants to see, every child desires a happy family and not a broken one. In a divorce that has occurred because of a specific reason and cannot be stopped, the parents should give more love and care to their kids and pay more attention to them, because they need a lot of emotional support.