6 Tips to Avoid a Messy Breakup
4. Create a support system
It is important for you to create a support system for yourself and your boyfriend if you want to break up, especially if you have been in a relationship from a long time. If you know that a breakup is impending, seek support from your friends and get your boyfriend to seek support from his. This will ensure that there are lesser emotional upheavals during your breakup.
5. Break up in person
Ending a relationship is a very sensitive act and it should be done with great care and concern. No matter how angry you are at your boyfriend or how dilapidated your relationship has become, it is important that you break up with grace. Don’t break up with your boyfriend over a text, email or a phone call. Give some amount of dignity to each other and break up in person. Being there in front of each other will make your breakup less messy.
6. Negate the anger
One of the reasons why breakups become messy is because couples start hurling abuses at each other along with the blame for breaking up. If both partners try to understand the things that are causing incompatibility and other problems in the relationship, they can make their breakup much smoother. When anger and resentment start cropping up in the process of breaking up, bridge the gap with communication.
