6 Tips on How to Handle a Rude Boyfriend
A person may be rude because of anger, hatred, insecurity or mere ignorance. As an important person in his life, you are in an ideal position to identify the reasons and help him change. It is always wise to take early steps in this matter, or else this rudeness may soon turn to verbal and physical abuse.
1. Get real with him
Whenever he is angry or says something hurtful, let him know that what he said was rude. Many a time, people do not even realize that they were rude, until told so.
2. Give him time and space
Most often, it makes no sense trying to reason with an angry person. It is best to leave him alone for that time, and wait for him to calm down. If you mean enough to him, he will surely come back to you.
3. The power of silence
If your boyfriend is being rude to you and you retaliate by being equally mean, it does not really serve any purpose. Instead, if you can keep your composure and choose to be silent, he gets the chance to hear his own words and realize his mistake.
