6 Tips on How to Forgive Yourself After an Affair
4. See what you can learn from your mistake
And make a vow that you would never again repeat what you had done. Realize that the affair was not worth all the pain it caused.
5. Take comfort in the small joys the affair brought
People’s lives change after an affair and not always are they bad. Sometimes a good thing can come out of an affair. You might realize your partner is not the right one for you or you are not the right one for him. Whatever it is, try to focus on the positives.
6. Stop torturing yourself
It is over. Time to move on and do what is best for you. Be thankful that you could see clearly enough to get out of it and work on forgiving yourself.
Get the moral factor out. It is important how you feel. Do not fret about what others think about you. What you feel about yourself is more important.
