6 Second Date Tips for Women
4. Focus on compatibility
There may not be a rosy scenario all the way. You may realize that whatever you have thought about your man on the first date, was not exactly how he turned out to be on your second date. Was he faking it on the first occasion? You will never know. But you must be prepared for such a situation, to not allow any bloopers to happen in the future. Focus on observing his personality, his behavior and his way of reacting and dealing with things. This is a golden chance for you to judge who your man really is.
5. Make him work hard for you
Play hard to get! This trick never fails. Men like women who are hard to please and have some attitude. If you surrender yourself and become easily available to the man then he might lose interest. Place yourself on the pedestal of a queen and make him run around a little for you. When he does win your heart and satisfy you enough, then he will feel as if he has acquired a prized possession.
6. Don’t make him your Agony Aunt
Just because you’ve scored a date with your man doesn’t mean you start pouring out all your emotional hang ups on him. You can do this a little later when you’re in a relationship but jump the gun and don’t reveal too much of your emotional side just yet. He may end up getting a false reputation of you being a cry baby.
Second dates are when, your polished guards come off and you have to show the real person that you are! Consider your second date as a make or break session when you should decide whether you should keep meeting or not. Even if things don’t work out the way you expected they would, keep calm and give your date a few more shots before calling it off.
