6 Things You Should Never Tell Your Husband
4. You’ll do it yourself
If you’ve given something to do to your husband, such as washing dishes, and he is not able to do that properly, then you can’t just burst out at him in a hyper manner and tell him that you’ll do it yourself. Instead, you need to be appreciative of his efforts. Telling a man that he couldn’t do one simple thing you asked him to do is like telling a child who is learning to walk that he is never going to be able to run. Don’t judge him on things he can’t do. Instead wait for the things he does on his own, and let him surprise you with his skills and efforts.
5. His friends are useless
Everybody has some friends who they hang out with for no good reason at all. But telling your husband that his choice of friends is wrong, or that you don’t want to hang out with his friends, is like you not wanting to be a part of one side or aspect of his life. For all you know, those friends matter to him the most, and you disliking them will just hurt your husband a lot. In some ugly fight, he too might then pull out a long list of your friends that he hates.
6. You were warned
You have your parents and friends to warn you about things that your husband might do. Same way, he also has some people warning him about how his wife might act. However, when your spouse starts acting in a way you feared, or were warned about by your loved ones, you don’t go tell him/her about it. This is because in your husband’s head, he will consider himself as an object being constantly studied and monitored by a bunch of your well-wishers, who only care about you, and not him or your relationship as a whole. It pisses off a man to know that he is behaving in a way you were warned he’d behave like.
