6 Signs You are Finally Over Him
4. You have actively started dating
The most prominent sign of having moved on from an ex is having a new love interest. However, don’t mistake this for a rebound relationship or use it as a tactic to make your ex jealous. When you really feel happy with a new guy after a couple of months of active dating and couldn’t care less about what your ex is up to, then you have managed to move on successfully.
5. You don’t avoid places he goes to
Just after your breakup you would avoid him like the plague. You would stop going to mutual friends’ parties, dodge him in college, change your route to avoid bumping into him or even go to the extent of changing your job or gym. This feeling has reduced considerably, almost disappeared to the extent that you don’t mind bumping into him at all. You have realized why stop living peacefully just because of a man like him.
6. You are no longer hoping for a reconciliation
The biggest indication of having moved on from a failed relationship is that you are no longer open to or hoping for a reconciliation with your ex. You would fervently wait by the phone expecting him to message or call and apologize and come back to you. Now you have become more rational, practical and realistic and removed the blinders from your eyes. There are no expectations in your heart and mind about trying to get him back in your life.