6 Reasons When Divorce is Not The Answer to Infidelity
4. When you are going to be the loser after divorce
If you don’t earn enough to sustain yourself and your child and you depend on your husband for many other things, then divorce may not be the answer to your husband’s infidelity. If he does not have the alimony to support you and your children, then your child’s future is at stake. This does not mean that you succumb to your husband’s fancies and let him have his way. It only means that you should first take time to figure out your own situation and think of a divorce later when you are better equipped financially and emotionally.
5. When you have cheated on your partner in the past
Have you cheated on your husband before and been forgiven by him before he cheated on you? If the answer is yes, divorce may not be the right answer for your husband’s infidelity. You cannot have the upper hand on your husband if you have been at fault yourself. You may need to talk about your husband’s infidelity to him and ask him whether he did so out of revenge or was it impulsive.
6. When you and your husband have lost interest in each other
Your divorce should be ideally based on very solid ground, not something flippant as losing interest in each other. If you and your husband are simply bored in your relationship and are not attracted to each other anymore, there are better ways of addressing the situation than going through a divorce and tearing apart the family.
