5 Ways To Stop Hating And Start Loving
4. Live In The Present
Sometimes, we focus on things happened in the past. An offense or old bitterness may prevent you from loving people today. Those people, who caused you pain or offended you, may have overgrown their past faults. They might have fixed their attitude or problems. But, if you allow yourself to live in the past, you miss out on love opportunities that you are receiving in the present.
5. Open Up Your Heart
You cannot possibly love with a closed heart, the same as you cannot shake hands with a fist or kiss with tightly shut mouth. Yes, by opening up your heart, you risk to get it hurt again. But, that is the only way to love. Let yourself love, give and receive. Love cannot be done one way. You should learn both to give and to receive. To feel needed and to feel in need.
